so my man and I chatted about the camping situation and my POV.
the mature thing to do was for me to go camping. so I said I would go camping, as long as he and I get time away from all these crazy people who can’t do anything without his “ex”. Okay. good compromise.
two days later. he cancelled camping. *thunk* [my jaw hit the floor].
I didn’t get any credit for the cancellation, but I did keep asking during our convo last Wednesday , “why are we going with these people if we don’t like all of them?”
the ultimate reason for cancellation? to paraphrase – it’s the quality of people who you surround yourself with at a campfire, rather than the quantity of people at the campfire. so. no camping. his reason for others – his new contract job could impede on that weekend and therefore is unable to commit to planning/going camping. which is true too. the possibility is there.
I don’t care why, how, who for the cancellation. I’m just glad we aren’t going. It’s been a crazy busy summer of late and every weekend there is something going on until Mid September. FUN but exhausting at the same time.
In the mean time, I do have to figure out a way that I don’t want to throw up every time his ex’s name is mentioned or throw inanimate objects at her head when she comes over to pick up the dog.